Thanks for the great words of wisdom from all!

I don't want to "shot myself in the foot" as HowlerKarma said. We are looking at an elite high school but I don't think it will hurt him not to have the weighted grades now since he really does fine without it. He's also doing great on his test high school course that he's taking right now. Once he's officially taking them it will just show as pass/fail for any he takes now on his high school transcripts, so I think I'm leaning towards letting it go.

I've fought so hard for so long, maybe I'm just stuck in fight mode and I need to let it ride for awhile. Thanks again to all. Whenever I need support, have a question or just need to clarify some things, I seek out this forum. It's been a life line that I hope all G/T parents know about!