There is a Yahoo! group called GIFTED-NLD-AS that is for parents (and a few older kids post, too) that have kids who are gifted and also have a non-verbal learning disability or Asperger's diagnosis. You might want to join that group and put your query to them; there is a lot of NVLD experience out there! My DD (age 17) has a NVLD, but she is quite an introvert and is not great at social cues. However... she has an older sister that is a true extrovert and very good at social cues who I also suspect has a NVLD, but it is less severe and was never formally diagnosed. I think if you email the address below and tell them you have a recent diagnosis of a kid with a NVLD and high IQ scores, you can easily join.

Gifted-NLD-AS-subscribe@yahoogroups.com