Thanks MoN. The specifics help put in perspective that I'm not crazy, at least not in this area!

I've asked our family consultant for a recommendation of who else to have look at the reports. I'm not sure at this point if it's a "can't" diagnose or "won't" diagnose. I would be fine with a 504, but I need documentation to ask the school for it. I can't just say "See here where she says that it's not a problem, well she's wrong." And there's always the denial part in my own head of, well maybe it's not a problem. Maybe it's just a weakness that he needs to deal with.