I am inclined to show her the IQ bell curve and point to where DD is on that curve as to her verbal abilities. Is this an accurate way to really get convey DD's ability? Other thoughts?
I think this could work - it's very visual and very clear. I'd definitely try this.
(I made the mistake of showing where I am on the BC to my DD9 and telling her about the genetic link - I was hoping to motivate her - not so much. She acted really cocky for a few days. sigh.)
I think it would work for a teacher though.
