Thanks so much for the feedback. And, you're right, arm chair diagnosing isn't a good option. It is the former reporter in me that always needs to dig for more information so that I have a wider layer of information with which to ask more intelligent questions and to use in weighing the information coming in as we move forward with more testing, etc.
Thus the motivation to ask for anectdotal feedback here. Most of what you read in researching the characteristics is pretty black and white. And my kids just refuses to fall into any predictable black and white pattern.
