Originally Posted by g2mom
I think i would be much more upset to be told my kid was unbalanced than just immature.

It's true, I suppose, that "unbalanced" sounds pretty negative... but at least by saying that she would have acknowledged the GT component. In the conversation we had she was simply dwelling on my daughter's social immaturity, while completely ignoring that there was an equally atypical strength. Ah well. It's done now, and almost three years have passed...