My DD is looking very 2E on paper this week, has always looked that way anyway. I understand that school is not the best environment for this.
Does your child like music or art and do they have a good program? moving into grade 4 we're hanging in there due to DD's enthusiasm for learning a band instrument. And her art teacher is so darn encouraging with her comments, bless her heart! Got to figure out how to get rid of the classroom color change issue by Sept. though. And rev up the appropriate academics for those strength areas...
DH and I looked into private and small Catholic and we're not sure at this time. DD won't homeschool for the moment, will take it one month at a time this coming year. We thought we'd spend the money on travel and lessons and LEGOS and counseling at the university this year to see if that helps DD with the fight that she seems determined to fight. Middle school there will be a change and I have something in mind but that is two years off now.