We had this problem last year. The school year was not good till I pulled my dd out to homeschool. That being said, no to schools are the same. I know that schools that work with parents exist, I just do not seem to have them in my area. You recieved great advice already and when my dd did start pull outs then she did better in school, though she was still bored. Good luck. I hope you find as much help on this board as I have.