My nearly 9 year old is pretty OK at school. She has a couple of kids who are what I call "freaky gifted' in her class, eg. doing high school maths already and very very smart. She will only ever be the third student in her class. It's an amazing cohort!
That's great! But speaking as the mother of an 8yo doing high school(+) maths, please don't call them freaky gifted around them or their parents. They aren't freaks, as you know, and it might make someone's day fractionally easier if they don't have to cope with that word.
I have emailed DD3's preschool a few days ago and have received an Ominous Silence in reply. Wonder what that means?
Hopefully just that someone's not on top of their email... never attribute to malice what can be explained by mere incompetence, and all that.... Good luck!