I would strongly suggest that you get an advocate involved. Ours has been invaluable and the cost has turned out to be a fraction of what we were spending on outside services and testing. I fought all through kindergarten and got nowhere. Once we got the testing done HUGE issues showed up which led to an IEP and a change of school district for 1st grade. Even with a district willing to provide services we needed an education consultant who went right to the director of special services to really get things moving along.
Eye rolling is totally inappropriate. That alone would have me on the phone with whoever oversees her at your district's central office. There seem to be clear signs here that something is wrong. Maybe try to get your district's director of special ed on the phone and ask him/her to explain why reversals, transposing and writing the wrong direction are things you don't need to worry about. If s/he can't then maybe it will cause them to take a second look.
Good luck!
