Hmm--thanks for the tip, ABQmom. As a matter of fact, we do have a climbing gym quite close to our house and I have heard they are good with kids. I know of a good riding place, but it's distant, and the expense seems significant. I've also considered martial arts, but I know for sure that it would not appeal, at least initially--she is very opposed to anything that seems violent in any way. Yet I suspect the discipline/respect aspect would be great for her. We do try to get her in the pool as much as we can in summer--she loves to swim.