We have another IEP sched for this month. This one will include the teachers in his new full day gifted program he starts next year. Based on everyone's posts I emailed the school psychologist about the possibility of Aspergers. I'd brought it up before but never really was able to get a clear idea of why/why not that dx. He is in a social skills class as part of the special school district in our area. I think its very helpful but I'm going to keep researching classroom & recess strategies for him.
Thank you all so much for your responses. Finding this forum for 2E children has been such a relief just to know I'm not alone.