Agree that you try to work with the school first (perhaps put something in writing) but may end up pulling him soon. A lot of it depends on how flexible the school is. I hope the school is flexible but unfortunately they're not always flexible or accommodating based on my experience.
I pulled my eg/pg son last year when he was 5 years old and in pre-K after 2 1/2 months of a traditional gifted school. He was crying and begging me not to send him to school too and was having psychosomatic conditions. This year my son's at a different gifted school and while he's not crazy about the school I'm just trying to get through the remainder of the year. Next year, I plan to homeschool.
Keep a close on it because an educational mismatch can escalate those conditions (
http://www.sengifted.org/archives/a...octor-fit-in-the-care-of-gifted-children).
Totally agree with Grinity - take good care of yourself. It's exhausting dealing with that kind of situation. I found it emotionally draining. Take it easy.
