I took the paragraph out of my OP about the teacher, because I decided I was being unfair to her. She is in fact trying to help DD, I'm sure, and has been more accommodating than some would be, even if it doesn't seem like enough.
Today I faxed our ADHD questionnaire to DD's doctor (haven't gotten the one from the teacher back yet), and I asked her for opinions on our local OT and for one or two names for a neuropsych consult. I may well end up taking her to Dr. Eide's center, but I want to see what the wait times are elsewhere before I make a final decision on that.
