Spectacle, that would be a new one for me...I heard the word "incident" more than once, which I think should be a word reserved for a police report, not a 7 year old.
If I were in Seattle, I'd certainly check out the Dr. Eide's center if your daughter is that bright but with those learning issues.
http://neurolearning.com/It's very hard to keep your frustrated feelings for your child's teacher in check for the good of all, but I guess "character is more easily kept than recovered". Last year I had to get through the last weeks of school after my DD (then 7) was left out in the playground by her teacher, and she "couldn't get back into the building because she didn't know the secret code".
Yes the doors are locked to keep out adult intruders, not little 2nd graders who have been separated from their little herd!
Good luck!
