It was in AP classes that I found other students like me ...
In all fairness, dd doesn't have her first real AP (not pre-AP) class until next year.
(I used quotes because, as far as I know, none of us had ever had an IQ test since probably early elm. At a certain point you just "know" when other people are on your wavelength or not.)
I'd agree and suspect that dd would as well. She has no need to see IQ scores for her friends (lol!). One of her friends from middle school who she & I would both feel comfortable calling EG-PG has not taken an IQ test as far as I know, but you can tell. She's an underachiever, but seriously brilliant. Dd is looking for people like that.
At least on a positive note, she does seem to be making a few more friends. I just hope that they develop into deeper relationships like with her friend from last year at some point.