I am not sure who is envious of France. Yes, they have fine history and artistry and all that. But we all know where France stands right now (economy wise).
They work less hours and their GDP is shrinking.
I am not saying their off-hand parenting is bad. Many Americans do that. Most of the working parents do not have time with their children or they want their own time and let the kids play on their own.
One thing I agree is that our kids have too many after school activities. "keeping up with the Joneses syndrome"- our kids want to do what other kids are doing, ballet, music, martial arts, sports, etc...and juggling with school work.
When my DD was 8, she wanted to do all and she became moody and inattentive at school. After taking many activities out, she has more energy and became a sweet girl once more.
I once heard that if the seed is good, it will grow in any soil and bear fruits that are large and sweet but if you plant that seed in good soil and nurture, you will have plenty more fruits that are larger and may be sweeter still.
I believe in moderation. The kids need time to have fun and relax as well as time to stimulate their mind and grow. Of course, adults need their downtime too :-)
But I would rather play family boardgame with my DDs than watching sports with my friends.
