Just for fun we decided to wear "socially acceptable" sports T-shirts to walk around our small town to see if we somehow fit in better socially. People did talk to him more.
Going grey for a day? The grey man fits in everywhere.
His advice to her after she had gone through several football player and body builder boyfriends who turned out to be jerks was to find a guy that likes to read.
OT, but a friend finally stopped doing the same thing and found her "real" type, too. Great insight.
Boys mature when they get older. Teddy Roosevelt got past his childhood 2E issues and became a vigorous athlete. Fitness just requires discipline.