This school does not require parents to live by the philosophy--I know lots of parents with kids there and none are banning Legos, though I do think they discourage screentime. We actually do not do screens much at all anyway, so in that sense it's a decent fit. He would surely be exposed to lots of unvaxed kids, but he already is anyway since we hang with a very crunchy crowd. (No infants or compromised people in the household, though, and the whole thing doesn't worry me much on a personal level.)
I do know that they follow the Waldorf "art rules." And I don't like them either.
I would ask them straight out how they would view your child given his high abilities. You don't want him getting the message that there is something wrong with him or that you are not good parents because he can read, write, etc.
This is of course a good idea. I wonder if I would get a straight answer.
