Perhaps time to reread the Executive Function Resources. I am feeling better that she is not the only one in this situation. I was talking to my Mom about this. She said that my older brother who is gt had similar issues. He is now a successful man and minds his hygene just fine, but the teen years and through college were difficult.
My younger brother was like this and he still managed to get married once, then divorced (not due to his hygiene) and now has had a serious gf for 8 years or so...there's always hope
