Originally Posted by 1111
Here is an example of a conversation:

Can you come and get dressed now please?
I will when I am done with this?
OK, finish writing that one line and then come please.
No, I am going to write the whole page and THEN I will come.
No, you need to come now. (By now done with the one line)
No, I am not! YOU go and get dressed! I am NOT coming!

The only way to get his to come in a situation like this is to do the counting to 3. I don't want to use that technique multiple times/day though in fear that it will stop working.

I found timer works wonders in situations like that.

Also, if we have something to do, I always make sure DS3 knows he can't spend all day doing X. He can do X for 10 mins, and he have to get dressed and leave.