Epoh, what is your plan B and plan C?

Mr W is 3 and doing first grade stuff, so by age 4 he will do doing 3rd grade, then who knows after that.

He does not know he is different. I don't want him to stagnate or know he should be any different. Not until he gets a lot older and then it won't matter as he'll be a Tasmanian Devil and will just eat through anything thrown in his way!