I think that someone could easily read it in a way that puts parents of gifted kids in a bad light. It seems to me to have the flavor of a put down of parents who do work with their kids, and I've seen a lot of parents of ND, bright and gifted kids work with their kids for all the right reasons and in a respectful way.
Just because people accuse you of working with your kid to 'make him how he is' doesn't mean that we have to buy into the implied put down. I would encourge folks to parry with -
"Thanks for noticing, Buffy so enjoys learning" and leave it at that.
Parents seem to get blamed no matter what course they take.
((shrugs))
Grinity
