Thanks so much guys - I have a good list of library books I have on reserve now about dreams and reincarnation amongst a few others :-) for the recommendation of EMDR - we attempted a therapist who did EMDR and it was a disaster - the therapist was just not a good match with my son and then after the fact we found out that he was not certified in EMDR - so maybe down the road we may revisit that again with someone who is certified :-) For about 6 of our 10 months of PTSD therapy we were seeing a Psychologist, a Hypnotherapist and the gentleman who did EMDR - all at the recommendation of the psychologist. The hypnotherapist is the one my son loves to see and so now we just see him when he needs someone to talk to...DS8 says that he talks to him like he is not a little baby :-)
