My son is almost 3 and I'm just wondering how you guys with the 3 year-olds know that you can use that 'gifted' label with your kids. I'm pretty sure my son is bright, but have you had your kids tested or anything or are you just assuming? Did you family doctor bring it up to you or did you have to ask questions about it? And as for the numbers thing, my son would be right there with the rest of them, hunting down numbers on the playground!