Mia,
Move out by us. At worst our elem. school isn't that bad. I could tell you which school in the district is most GT friendly and you could move there. We'd still be a mile or two apart anc could have playdates!
The hitting thing is concerning. I don't think it's from playing a video game. Even though I met B for a short time, it's CLEAR he is NOT the violent sort. I'm thinking extreme frustration.
There are a lot of kids like C-dog around here, that helps. Maybe B would benefit with playing with more kids like him.
DO NOT be sad about his consequence and don't you dare waver!! You need to let him know you are serious about this. If he starts with the hitting it could develop into a problem, then hed might have a real problem finding friends. The other parents won't trust him and won't let their kids play with him. Sorry to be so brash. I'm a softie, but sometimes the tough love route is the way to go.
Incog
