We're hoping to buy the next place. And that's kind of what I'm thinking -- narrow down the options, start shopping around, and find the best fit. And no, we don't have a real estate agent yet -- are they really helpful with school stuff?
Ours was helpful, though we had no kids at the time, so we were just looking for a "good" school district. At least they can (subtly) direct you toward areas that are more likely to have what you need. Then if you can find a GT support group or even a PTA in the area, you can ask some more pointed questions to actual parents. Finding the right parents to ask is going to be the hard part, I'm afraid. Even regular GT families' answers might not help you, since their kids might fit better than B will. HG+ families don't wear signs, unfortunately.
And good for you for staying on the principal. Don't let her weasel out of it! Grrr...
