If it makes you feel any better, Dottie, early on, someone assumed I had an only child because I never posted about DS3, only about DS6.
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When these are the kids you worry about, they're the ones you post about. Since then, I've had some worries about DS3, so I've posted about him, too.
If your DDs are dealing well with school and their role in it, they're mostly happy, mostly challenged, then of course you don't post about them. That doesn't mean you're ignoring them. We can't see your real life!
Don't let it bother you. I'm sorry you got personally attacked for your parenting. That seems ridiculously out of line to me! It seems obvious to me that you're a loving and conscientious parent!!!
