Seablue, I'd go ahead and work on scheduling an evaluation (both private and school district) ASAP. The reason: it can take months to get to the top of the waiting lists for good private doctors, and the schools are allowed a period of 60 *school* days to get their evaluation done. Getting on the list now makes it more likely that you will have information when you need it.
Like you, I'd rather know what I'm dealing with first, before deciding how to treat symptoms. I'd put a neuropsych or developmental pediatrician before the OT for that reason.
I'm glad the xray is looking good... and I hope that there's a relatively easy solution (lifts in the shoe?) that will help your DD feel better.
DeeDee
