ha ha...I hope saying 5 years wasn't discouraging, I didn't mean it that way. I meant that it is a process to find what works best for your child.
I also had the question as to whether a PG kid could be misdiagnosed with Aspergers, but eventually gave up on worrying about it because the accommodations he gets for his autism help him so much. I don't know how easy it would be to get accommodations for being fidgety because he is lightyears ahead of the teacher....
We handpicked our teacher also by stating that the psychologist (who is well-respected at the school) determined the best fit. We have learned how to name-drop!
Nan
