We have an IEP/ALP for DS8 which includes all his GT things as well as his (Special Ed) social skills things for Asperger's. We're in Colorado, where I think they are required to specify in both directions.
It sounds like you have a good list there, providing the school will lay it down in writing like the developmental ped wants it.
With cystic fibrosis and Asperger's as well as being gifted, I can fully understand both anxiety and depression issues! That would be just about enough for anybody's plate. I wish you luck with the school!
