Thank you all for sharing with me all this great information on perfectionism.
I use to have alot of faith for public education.But now I find myself questioning their
judgement.I've considered homeschooling and left it as an open option.I'm looking into other schools in my area ,and in the process trying to get my son an IEP ( one way or another).I can not take him out of a school environment untill I know what I'm up agaist.

(Trinity) My son reads 3rd grade level books,in one day completed all second grade games on math website. He picks up math very fast.My son has been ready for 3rd grade math,But I havent let him move on.He just picks it up too fast and I fear he may forget what he's already learned.
A few months ago I secretly video taped him working at home and turned it in to the school psycholoist.She has not gotten back to me yet!