Originally Posted by Grinity
A bigger sacrifice was the years DS lost in elementary school, being convinsed that he was 'bad.'

Of course the biggest sacrifice was not having more than one child. At the time we didn't know what was going on, just that baby was unconsolable, and attached to mommy at the hip, and we sort of figured that we were bad parents and better not try for more kids. (All our local friends and family members agreed with this assesment and didn't hesitate to share this info with us!)

I agree whole heartedly with the first and am very sorry you got such bad information on the second.

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