I'm so sorry you've had to go through this. As you can see, you're definitely not alone. I am feeling very similar frustrations (however, my ds is not quite THAT advanced!), and I know how difficult it is to put so much energy into advocating and fighting for your child, only to be accused of making poor decisions for her future. We just pulled ds out of his private school to homeschool. We're still working out the kinks (today is day 1), and while it's not perfect, everytime we go down another avenue we're always led back to hs. It's sad that it becomes the only option for our kids. They deserve more.
