i have the same problem, my DS7 and DD5 seem to want nothing to do with any routine or structure. I am actually a bit relieved to read your post and we're not alone. this gives me such concern. I feel my kids are just so untamed and willful, but when i try to demand structure i feel like i become a tyrant.
Thank you! I am trying to help the kids practice their routines but some days it feels ridiculously frustrating. It's really helpful to know that I am not alone and should keep trying.
I realize my son (possibly both of them) is different from our friends' kids and that large parts of his day have been frustrating as he tries to figure out why others do not think like he does.
It's easy for me to think about how I can make changes when I'm not in the situation and DS7 will also come up with ideas. Unfortunately, nothing we've tried works for very long and we both end up very grumpy in the morning.
Any suggestions for how to add humor to our morning routine?
