Wow, oh wow, oh wow!!! I never thought about this as being part of being gifted!! LOL!!!! I never like to accept anything from anyone as I always want to "do it myself". I always see potential strings that I might not want, or I don't want to impose, or as Dottie said, I feel "unworthy". It's like when I was back in school and people wanted to be my partner because I would get everything done and they could just coast on my coat tails. I learned to not like partnerships and would just rather do it myself. Very interesting. I came on here to learn about my child and I'm learning all kinds of stuff about me!!! :-)