I've been debating about whether to ask this or not, but decided to see what your opinions are. DS11 is a nice kid...possibly too nice. He worries about "making waves" and opts not to voice concerns. When offered a ride home, he politely declines because he doesn't want to impose (and then rides the city bus--long trip). He will go and hang out with the neighbor kids even though he doesn't want to because he's afraid of offending them. I don't know if this is going to be his grownup personality, but I worry about him. Anyone ever deal with this?