You guys are so awesome! Thanks for all your thoughts and advice!

Trinity, you are right...we are kind of nuts to be second-guessing ourselves right now about the hypothesis that he is bored - I think we thought he would score even higher and we were disappointed that he didn't take it seriously, hence the reaction. But, you are totally right that those scores demand action. I am amazed, though, at how helpless/paralyzed two uber-educated parents can suddenly feel/become when someone says the things the school said about our son. I know many of you have been there, and it's such an isolating time. We feel so much pressure to make the "right" move, and in this case, it has some pretty big implications for our family should I decide to bring him home for "school" this year. But, I guess I can't think of a better reason to tip over the apple cart, right?

The medical information is also helpful, and we're going to chase down those paths as well.

Keep the thoughts coming...you all have been so much help!