Hi -
My child is still in preschool so I have no direct advice.
That being said, I can hear your frustration and have been in bad fit (preschool) situations before... It is so hard when the teacher/school administration a) don't "get" your child and b) can't even hear what you are trying to tell them.
Until the other wise and experienced Moms and Dads have a chance to respond to your post I would encourage you to do the following:
- take a deep breath
- read through the archives (previous posts) on this board.
There are a lot of folks who have been in situations similar to your who have successfully advocated for their children and/or found other options.
