Jeni,

I'll leave the advice to the more seasoned of the group but I wanted to send hugs. There are several huge red flags - 1) we need to slow him down, 2) shouldn't teach him everything now or there won't be anything left, 3) he has a lot to offer the group. He's not there just to offer the group something, he's there to get something in return preferably learning and not just social skills.

If nothing happens, what are your options? Is your DS unhappy?

Dazey