GiftedOne, I'm sorry to hear of the unfortunate results when interacting with others. I don't have any real answers, but want to demonstrate that you are worthwhile and so are your thoughts. So I am taking the time to post a reply.
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In reading your post, several other threads came to mind that just may be of interest. They illustrate that you are not alone. I scouted around and found a few links.

Forums, Age or Ability Specific, Adult. If you scroll down to see the Display Options, you may see that only threads "active in the past 3 months" are being displayed to you, providing few threads. One can change the Display Options by selecting "from all dates" in the drop-down box and clicking "Change." Then there are many pages of threads.

One post that may be of interest is the discussion of an article on Why People Dislike Really Smart Leaders (http://giftedissues.davidsongifted....e_Why_People_Dislike_Rea.html#Post241019 ).

A few of the TV shows mentioned in this thread (http://giftedissues.davidsongifted....yal_of_gifted_in_mass_me.html#Post234275),
and movies mentioned in these threads:
1 - http://giftedissues.davidsongifted....14374/Movies_about_gifted.html#Post14374
2 - http://giftedissues.davidsongifted....Trailer_gifted_coming_in.html#Post235898
3 - http://giftedissues.davidsongifted....042/gifted_documentaries.html#Post239042
may be of interest... as they show some negative reactions which gifted people may experience. In some cases, while watching these TV shows, movies, or documentaries, we may start to think of helpful ways we might respond if we were that character.

Sometimes we can diffuse or deescalate a situation, sometimes we can consider how the situation might look to the other person (perspective taking or theory of mind (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28215285/ )), sometimes we can look for patterns or consider whether an apology may help if we contributed negatively, sometimes it is best to give things a bit of time before trying again, sometimes we may just let go and move along as though nothing negative had happened.