Originally Posted by Gus
Part of my question, though, is how/where one draws the line between a relative weakness and a disability. Perhaps it’s not the correct/sole question to be asking if the goal is to promote best functioning regardless of whether medical or educational disability standards are met... ADHD was one of the referral questions. DD’s examiner ruled out ADHD but I’d like to hear the neurologist’s thoughts.
To read about a variety of identifying clues for LDs, and approaches to best functioning at home and at school Understood.org may be of interest, including this webpage on learning disabilities and this webpage on ADD/ADHD.

To read about identification, eligibility, IEP/504, etc, Wrightslaw may be of interest, including this index of topics and this webpage on eligibiity.