Platypus101 - thank you! Brilliant advice. I have just been enjoying the peace and joy but you're absolutely right. Just like all of us, when we're in the middle of heavy emotion it's difficult to see things clearly.

Will definitely broach the topic and see what I can do to help him work through the causes and what we can do to head off any future bumps. I know that's optimistic but hey, I'm feeling optimistic. smile

Yes, thank god for all of the support available here. Much appreciated!