It is a montessori daycare/school. I think the state legislates things like naptimes and interacting between age groups, so their hands are tied there if they want subsidies. So, I do think that the kids miss out on that tenet of Montessori education.

I think though, once she moves up to the 3s, there IS more intermingling.

That's where I am at for now. I wont worry until there is a problem. My curiosity was more... Am I snow-flaking her? Am I seeing something that they aren't? and if so, is it because I am her mom, or because they either aren't equipped to see it, arent being presented with all the information, or are trained not to investigate it and just go with the flow. Sounds like its a little bit of all three.