Hi Cricket,
Welcome! Isn't it strange to suddenly come upon a resource that one never imagined could exist?
I'm glad that we fit "well enough" to inspire you to join in the conversation.
Can you say more about J, and what clues you get that he is "underachieving." That word covers a lot of territory!
Good luck with the move, I know that that will be tough on all of you. Perhaps the stress will be an opportunity for J to turn more familyward and inward, in a good way?
I don't know about the levels or the local schools, but I wonder why J would not qualify for the level 4 service, with his straight As?
Will the military connect you with families who have children of similar age and ability in Fairfax County who could give local information and also serve as a role model for J?
Have you make contact with Virginia's Gifted Association?
http://www.vagifted.org/I wish you all the best,
Trinity
