Mahagogo5, not only is he in cub scouts but I am his den leader and his dad is the pack leader… the kids in his den are all nice kids, but there's no real connection- most are quiet loner types, while he is the class clown type. He has been in it since 1st grade and has had a good experience.
That does make it tricky then - I wonder how you would feel about him being in a different pack that didn't have Mom & Dad featuring so heavily? Perhaps a different group dynamic could help too.
I take it the teachers are well aware of the problem - Do they have more social inclusion as one of his goals for the year? It sounds more like he is lacking connection rather than being actively bullied so I imagine the teachers could be of enormous help steering him toward kids who are more tolerant of "quirks".
Best of luck
