One more thing re what to say about the test - I told DS who was 6 at the time that the test would help us understand the best ways for him to learn. I also told him that if he did his best, it would probably mean that he would get to do more interesting work at school SOONER. I didn't suggest that anything would be lost if he didn't do well. Seemed to be enough oaf a carrot for him, with out making him too anxious.