Originally Posted by DeeDee
Originally Posted by ultramarina
When we get in a down period with DD, I notice that I'm providing way too much negative feedback (even if I do it "well"). Frankly, it's because there is a great deal of negative behavior. However, she desperately needs positive acknowledgement, even if I am faking enthusiasm/gritting my teeth through it because I'm so frustrated overall.

Yes. This is also a good time to re-institute a bedtime cuddle and readaloud of a mutually enjoyable book. Calming and positive for everyone.

It's funny that you mention snuggling with a book for comfort as a soothing antidote to stress, because that's exactly what DS3 requested after a major upset today. (Along with nursing.)

What is to give light must endure burning.