Thanks for asking this question Mr and Mrs P because we are in a similar situation. DS7 is in a great school with gifted instruction 30 minutes twice per week. He's grade skipped for just math. I want him grade skipped for reading, too, but it's taken a lot of "squeaking" just to get him a "reading buddy" to read harder books in the library twice per week. Also the librarian helps him pick out harder books, but he just reads them in one day anyway.
Fortunately our school administration is very knowledgeable and supportive of gifted needs. A full grade skip is always on the table, I just don't think my son is ready for that emotionally and socially. I just want him to be more challenged.
All I can say is keep doing what you are doing. You are his only advocate right now. Honestly, the more you squeak, the more likely they are to comply just to get you to shut up.
Good luck!
Siren
