This is the school that I've referred to here before as Tiny Private School. They are already very good at individualizing kids' education, and she's right where she needs to be for both math and reading. She could probably be quite a bit more challenged in various content areas (science, history, literature), but I'm okay with that because we do so much un-after-schooling. (That is, incidental learning about all kinds of stuff, just by being the kind of family that we are).

No, the problem really is the high amount of focused work that is demanded, and it's just not working for my kid. Unfortunately this is one area (the homework load in particular) where there is no room for negotiation. (Or, let me clarify that. They've been quite good about letting DD do less because she's been struggling with it, but with the understanding that we are not up to snuff in this area and need to be working towards full compliance.)